So many of the picks from my holiday dress roundup are currently on sale, but I wanted to call out a few exceptional sale finds from this list as well as a couple of additions:

+This stunning velvet dress with the prettiest bows on the shoulders — 30% off! I already bought my velvet Christmas dress but I might need this one, too.

+This feather-trim tuxedo blouse is EVERYTHING. I would pair with big statement earrings, cigarette pants, and heels and feel like Audrey Hepburn in it.

+Jewel embroidered shift (so unusual — such a statement! — and 30% off).

+Cult Gaia statement clutch (extra 15% off sale price with code 15EXTRA).

+Sweetest bow-shouldered top in cheery red (20% off purchases over $200).

+This sage green turtleneck dress is the perfect muted Christmas look.

+This bold red style packs a major punch. J’adore.

+Velvet hairbows (I bought two — one for me, one for mini).

+Tartan mules ($69!) — easiest way to transform your favorite jeans and black or ivory sweater into something perfect for Christmas day. (This $40 pair of flat tartan mules is also darling.)

+This spruce-colored, velvet-collared coat is BANANAS.

For little ones, don’t miss this Janie + Jack promotion — 35% off everything, plus free shipping:

+Adore this shawl-collar sweater, this knit train one-piece, and this navy blue velour shortall for little boys.

+And for girls, this cheery red sweater, this plaid jacquard dress, and these plaid leggings.

Frilly Frog is also offering 40% off some current-season holiday outfits (discount automatically applied at checkout), including this beyond precious Sal e Pimenta red velvet confection (baby brother can match in these), this gorgeous traditional tartan dress, and this precious bubble.

I already bought a number of holiday outfits for my children from small business Born Boutique, who is (similar to Frilly Frog, and carrying many of the same brands) offering 40% off this selection with code THANKFUL40. I bought Hill this plaid/velvet top and short set and both of my children the blue velvet Sal e Pimenta pieces.

Last but not least, a smattering of items I’m eyeing seriously on this final (?) day of promotions: this Tory Sport fleece (30% off), these Lululemon running tees and loose-fit tanks, this crib skirt for Hill’s nursery (20% off and free ship — note that this sweet gingham style for a girl’s room is even more deeply discounted; $24 shipped!!!), my favorite body lotion (20% off and free ship!), and these pastel Loeffler Randall mules, which are somehow $119 in my size…!

P.S. Prestige beauty items on rare sale and a shortlist of all my favorite sale buys.

P.P.S. Do you want more fiction? I have been working on the book quite a bit and am desperate to share…

I’m back with an abbreviated selection of honest reviews (more here, here, and here)! I’ve been in a pretty good spot with my beauty and cosmetics routine and have been disinclined to introduce much else at the moment, but I did want to share a couple recent experiences…

+Ilia Super Serum Skin Tint. I wanted to like this so badly! A serum and an SPF with foundation-like coverage, all-in-one? However, I found the formula very difficult and unwieldy to apply — even after shaken vigorously (per instructions), I felt the tint “broke” and was difficult to apply with any degree of consistency over the skin, even with my Artis brush in hand. I also did not feel it left my skin looking as natural as it does when I wear a tinted moisturizer — I found it difficult to blend in (splotchy?). Finally, it has a very distinctive scent I could not get beyond — sort of like plastic or plaster or something? Disappointing. But, it reminded me that I already have two great tinted moisturizers on hand (love LM and Chantecaille) and, when I need more coverage, my favorite foundation stick (<<free shipping right now with code FLASHNOVEMBER).

+Differin. I have been intrigued for a long time about retinol and retinoids, which promote skin cell turnover and which many people claim as the key to the fountain of youth. My dermatologist recommended starting with something non-prescription (a retinoid) and working my way up to a prescription-strength retinol if I liked how things were going, as they can be drying. Many people rave about Differin — inexpensive, treats acne, and adapalene (its key ingredient) is a retinoid. I used this for a month and saw no favorable difference in my skin. In fact, I broke out! I think the breakout could have been because I stopped using my glycolic acid treatment pads in favor of testing Differin and my skin rioted against the unceremonious change. But I just can’t figure out how or where else to introduce differin — it feels too harsh to put it on top of glycolic acid?! Help! Tell me your secrets, skincare gurus!

+Ritual Vitamins. As a part of my self-improvement regimen, I started taking daily multivitamins, and I chose Ritual. There is a lot to like about them — they taste good (minty) and contain only what you need (no additives), and I like the subscription model (takes all legwork out of the equation), but I found them so hard on my stomach! Every day I took them, I was horribly nauseous. I later read that this is common and that often it takes your body awhile to adjust but I could not get to the next phase, and so I abandoned ship. I do feel I eat a very balanced diet so I am just going to rest on those laurels for now.

+IGK Thirsty Girl Leave-In Hair Conditioner. This stuff is AMAZING for color-treated, dry hair. I have been layering it with my Oi Hair Milk recently and je suis obsessed. It goes on like a hair spray (!), smells like heaven, and totally softens and conditions my hair. The Oi Hair Milk is fantastic as a primer and detangler. I think they work wonderfully together.

+Not new in these parts, but I recently re-stocked a few items that I simply can’t live without:

HOURGLASS EYEBROW GEL — Please (!) give (!!) this (!!!) a (!!!!) try (!!!!!). It is truly the most amazing eyebrow tamer, shaper, and filler. I love the way it fills and shapes brows with a simple flick (no tedious penciling-in), and looks so natural given the range of colors it comes in (you can actually match to your natural brow color!)

BOBBI BROWN EXTRA LIP TINT — Pack of three for 25% off at the moment. I don’t know about you, but I have worn statement lipstick once in the last nine months, and it was on a day where I needed to hit the reset button and my children were very confused about why I had red marker all over my lips. (Ha!) Most days, I wear this lip tint instead. It glides on like a balm and affords the loveliest hint of color. I couldn’t resist picking up this three-pack at such a good value! (They work out to like $14/tube! Buy for yourself and give the other two as gifts to your sister and mother! Or use them all for yourself, as I am doing…ha!)

BELIF THE TRUE CREAM AQUA BOMB — I seriously considered testing a different moisturizer (thank you in particular to Veronica for your very convincing recommendation of Drunk Elephant!) but I ended up reordering Belif, a gel-like cream from Korean skincare label that I find deeply hydrating for the dead of winter, because a) I know and love it, b) I was somewhat disheartened by my recent testings of the highly popular items above, and so I might as well stick with what works for now, and c) it is such a good value compared to other high-end moisturizers! (Half the price of Drunk Elephant for the same amount of product, for example.) J’adore j’adore jadore.

What other products have you been testing and liking?

The product I now have my eye on is Le Prunier’s Plum Beauty Oil, which Chrissy Teigen (unsponsored!) lauded on social media a few weeks back and is, of course, now sold out for weeks.

P.S. My favorite home organization products.

P.P.S. A really, really, really good book. Probably the best I’ve read this year, alongside The Dutch House.

P.P.P.S. Drive gently, dearie.

*Image above via Polarn O Pyret, maker of my favorite snow bibs and suits for littles. And how beyond precious are these girls?! Can you even imagine having triplets? Hats off to all the moms of multiples.

Mini is ecstatic about the prospect of snow this winter, and I have learned the hard way (i.e., multiple years in a row…) that it is best to buy the gear well before you think you will need it, or run the risk of sending your baby out ill-equipped to handle the weather. Below, my favorite snow gear finds for children. Worth noting that these are all high quality pieces that will hold up over time and are hand-me-down material for multiple children.

POLARN O PYRET BIB SNOWPANTS (MINI HAS THIS PAIR; MICRO HAS THIS PAIR — NOTE THAT THIS BRAND RUNS REALLY BIG! I THINK YOU CAN GO A FULL SIZE DOWN! I ALSO LOVE THESE FOR ITTY BITTIES; MICRO OWNED IN A FEW SIZES)

POLARN O PYRET SNOW MITTENS

SPERRY SNOW BOOTS (FOR GIRLS AND BOYS)

PATAGONIA HI-LOFT JACKETS FOR BOYS AND GIRLS

SMARTWOOL SOCKS

AMAZON ESSENTIALS THERMALS — I ALSO LIKE THESE RIBBED SETS FROM VAENAIT BABY, BUT THEY AREN’T AS WARM

LL BEAN HATS

Snow day accoutrements:

LL BEAN DOES GREAT CLASSIC SLEDS AND SNOW TUBES (ICONIC HOLIDAY GIFT — SOMEONE ASKED ABOUT GOOD FAMILY GIFTS, AND THIS WOULD BE ANOTHER)

FLEXIBLE FLYER IS ANOTHER GREAT CLASSIC SLED BRAND — WE OWNED THESE GROWING UP…THEY ALSO HAVE A PRECIOUS INFANT PULL SLED

SNOW SAUCER

SNOW CASTLE KIT

SNO BUDDY (MINI LOVES THESE! SO FUN FOR LITTLE ONES WHO AREN’T QUITE DEXTROUS ENOUGH TO MAKE A SNOWMAN ON THEIR OWN)

TODDLER SNOW SHOVEL

Apres-snow:

PEPPERMINT HOT CHOCOLATE

MELAMINE MUGS

COZY HOLIDAY JAMMIES

CAMP SOCKS

SLIPPERS

PLAID CHILDREN’S ROBE

P.S. My favorite products for my three-year-old and my favorite bath gear for little ones.

P.P.S. Indoor toddler activities, plus I just ordered mini this rock-painting set. I know so many moms who do not live in a city are probably choking on their coffee right now! “You bought…rocks?” But I actually don’t know if it’s right to take rocks from Central Park (or particularly clean, especially in the high-traffic areas we frequent…note: never ever ever take anything from a Manhattan playground…)?! Moreover, mini’s Montessori is big on “leaving plants and nature as you find it.” So, I found myself in a strange moral quandary when mini plied me to help her build her own rock collection after seeing an episode of Sesame Street on the subject. Ahh! What’s a Manhattan mom to do?!

P.P.P.S. Raising a child of books.

One of the most common shopping requests I get is whether I can track down a Mason Pearson brush on sale. I am always scouting, and I found a compelling promotion for you to consider: Neiman Marcus is offering $50 off any purchase of $200. You can buy the brush and my cherished Cle de Peau concealer (I think most of us agree that it’s the best concealer money can buy?) and add on something small, like a lip balm or a pair of Hanky Panky and get the lot for around $150. Not a bad deal! It’s like getting the concealer for $20, or the brush for $70, depending on how you look at it.

But there are also incredible prestige beauty deals elsewhere that I had to gush about —

+Chantecaille rosewater spray for 25% off.

+Tata Harper regenerating cleanser for 25% off.

+Oribe haircare for 25% off.

+Augustinus Bader rich cream for 20% off.

+Kevyn Aucoin SSE for 25% off — this stuff is heavy-duty. It’s when you need The Big Guns, as in you have a ridiculously bad breakout, or you’re muddling your way through the sleepless newborn phase of life, or you are trying to hide a scar or something. It is thick and unctuous but it stays put and looks remarkably skin-like. I wore it once in front of my father-in-law and he commented that my skin looked like “porcelain” (!). This from a man who had never previously commented on my skin!

+Korres Wild Rose sleeping facial — j’adore j’adore j’adore. 25% off. The best night cream. Brightens and deeply hydrates.

+RMS Beauty Living Luminizer — 30% off!!! This stuff is incredible! I love that it is non-pigmented and it just glides on over anything. Use under brow, on cupid’s bow, at tip of nose, at inner corners of eye, etc.

+Bobbi Brown Extra Lip Tint — my favorite product for everyday lip color and care. 3 for $43!

P.S. Photo above taken — precariously — atop my beloved B&B waffle bed blanket, currently 25% off, but promotion ending tonight. Treat yourself.

*Image above from Jackie Greaney.

**Today is Small Business Saturday! I shared some of my favorite small business gift ideas here, and also want to shine a spot on my girlfriend Liz, who has just launched a business selling the most adorable themed sensory kits. Her husband’s family owns Burke Candy in Wisconsin and so she even has a cute holiday bark-making kit featuring Burke Candy caramel — such a cute weekend activity for little ones! You might also want to check out some of my recent Women of Substance, most of whom are founders of small businesses!

My Latest Snag: My Holiday Dress.

My main shopping activities this week entailed finishing up my holiday shopping thanks to all of the incredible Black Friday / Cyber Week deals, but can’t publish too many specifics because many of my loved ones read this daily…instead, I will just say that I did buy my Christmas dress (currently 40% off)! More contenders here, and how amazing is this Coca-Cola red SP (on super sale) and this tiered maxi in a similar hue (almost like wearing a nightgown to the dining room table) as late-stage entrants for your consideration? Saloni also brought back their stunning velvet bow-front Camille gown from last season and it was highly tempting…but I’d been eyeing that fierce SP for awhile and couldn’t say no. (Wouldn’t it be dreamy with these?)

I also treated myself to this Bobbi Brown extra lip tint trio, on super sale (with current promotion, each comes out to like $14 — normally $29 apiece!)

You’re Sooooo Popular: Silhouette Ornaments.

The most popular items on le blog this week:

+Sweetest silhouette ornaments — amazing gift for new parents, or grandparents!

+Le sequined midi dress. I think we will all be wearing this on NYE? Did I mention it’s under $60?

+Chic raffia coffee table (currently 20% off).

+Rattan baby doll pram. (At time of writing this, on rare sale for 30% off.)

+Shearling plaid Birks!

+Prettiest gift tags.

+A chic plaid shirt dress. Gussy this up with velvet heels or a padded velvet headband to make it feel fresh.

+New Balance sneaks!

+A few sizes left on this chic paneled fur vest! (On sale!)

Weekend Musings: Footnotes and Endnotes.

I’m listening to Obama’s new memoir at the moment and there is a provoking throwaway comment he makes early on in the narrative: “I’ve always hated footnotes and endnotes.” I wrote it down in my little “Bric a Brac” notebook, which is littered with half-formed thoughts, words I like or have recently discovered and am desperate to try on for size, ideas for blog posts, shopping lists, to-dos, quotes. I appreciated the implied tidiness and near-rectitude of the assertion: if something’s worth saying, why not fold it into the body of the oeuvre? Why deliberately relegate it to a space that I, for one, occasionally discard as unnecessary, depending on how much I am liking — or how much I need — the text at hand? The mechanics of the footnote or endnote require something extra of the reader: an unceremonious departure from the text to flip to a different part of the book, then the jostling back and forth between wheat and chaff to confirm understanding, before reabsorption into the text proper. They are, in other words, an interruption, and most of those feel unwelcome in these parts.

At the same time: they serve a purpose. There are times where a brief ancillary history might prove beneficial to the reader, but would interrupt the flow of writing, or detract too much from the central argument.

Just on the heels of this musing, a quote I once heard attributed to Junot Diaz materialized; I am botching it here, as I cannot track it down online, but it went something like: “I like to write between the cracks.” Meaning, in the context of the interview, that he was principally interested in the hidden, discarded, broken bits — the people and places and thoughts and spaces that do not look like smooth pavement, and that are often overlooked because of it. You might say that Junot Diaz writes in the footnotes and endnotes, or is making some statement about their positioning as such.

And just on the heels of that: memories of reading Vladimir Nabokov’s Pale Fire, which is a book that takes place almost entirely in the footnotes. (It consists of a 999-line poem, and the rest is fictionalized front and back matter — where the heft of Nabokov’s intellectual work emerges.) Nabokov was inviting us here, as elsewhere in his work, to investigate the role of the reader, the author, and the conventions to which both are beholden.

Stringing my way through these thoughts yielded no grand insight — just a pleasant, scenic intellectual perambulation. But I appreciated the invitation to think for a minute about some of the mechanics and scaffolding I take for granted in my chosen art form.

Post-Scripts: Santa Glasses.

+Cutest Santa glasses for holiday old-fashioneds.

+Apparently this $229 accent chair is one of Target’s most popular items — currently a few available!

+Sally La Pointe vibes for $50. (And the real deal is also on sale!)

+Bala bangles, fully stocked!

+Sweet hand towels for a little girl’s bathroom.

+Mini loves this little illustrated yoga book. How cute would this yoga mat be for her?

+I saw the COOLEST girl running in the park the other day wearing #allblackeverything with these throwback-style Nike tube socks and I literally went home and ordered the same.

+Sweet fair isle knit playsuit for a little one.

+Gorgeous Bottega-style pouch for under $100.

+Speaking of interesting bags, I have been seeing J W Anderson bags popping up on street style blogs. Love this style.

+Prettiest bow jacket.

+20% off the chicest velvet flat mules! (In case you missed out on my beloved Birdie house slippers.)

+This jeweled cardigan!!!

+Tidy hyacinth bins for organizing a pantry or linen closet.

+Such a fun top. I’m obsessed with the brand La Double J.

An abbreviated ledger of the absolute best Black Friday finds (all of which I have purchased or already own myself):

TUBBY TODD OINTMENT — A must-have for new-moms. Works on everything from diaper rash to eczema to baby acne. 15% off isn’t mind-blowing as far as discounts go, but I’ll take it!

NATORI BRA — $25?!?!? These are the absolute best everyday bra and I’ve written about them a billion times. Have never seen them at such a discount!

NO. 6 CLOG BOOTS — 20% off and my favorite winter boot at the moment. These run narrow, FYI — I sized up to pair with chunky winter socks and am glad I did.

EVERLANE CASHMERE TEE — $63!

S&L TEAK STEP STOOL — 20% off and free shipping. This is such a chic alternative to your wire frame collapsible style, whether for in the pantry/kitchen or at the sink for little ones. (And if you are about to have a c-section, you will need a step stool to get into bed, so why not have the chicest one on the market?)

TISSUE TURTLENECK — I own this in like 10 colors, including the recently-launched plaid. 50% off!

COCOFLOSS AND KLORANE DRY SHAMPOO — Both 30% off. Weird things to be excited about on Black Friday, but I’ll take a discount on these medicine cabinet staples, which I will happily purchase at full price.

RALPH LAUREN BABY CASHMERE CARDIGAN — 40% off. Yes, 40% off! This is such a splurge but I have purchased a few of these for my children as infants and they are beyond adorable over their holiday looks.

RALPH LAUREN WOMEN’S CASHMERE CREWNECK — Also 40% off!!! Incredible bargain.

OUTDOOR VOICES CLOUDKNIT SWEATS FOR HIM — Mr. Magpie’s favorite, up to 35% off in select colors. Snag a pair to tuck into your man’s stocking.

NIKE REACT INFINITY RUNNING SHOES — My absolute favorite, and gladly purchased at full price, but now available for well under $100 here and here. I also bought this pair of well-reviewed Nikes in the pink color because they are $66 plus an extra 20% off today (!!!!)

MICRO SCOOTERS — 20% off. The best brand for tiny ones; the handle is adjustable to height. We gave mini hers before she even turned two!

MINNOW SWIM — 20% off all suits, and I had to get this one for mini. They also have an unprecedented “super steals” section, where you can get tiny trunks for boys for under $30 as well as rash guards for girls under $35.

PETITE PLUME PAJAMAS — My favorite traditional brand of pajamas for children, on sale for 25% off in the most precious holiday print here.

SEA BEAUX DRESS — What I wore for Thanksgiving, but would also make a festive choice for the holidays. It’s a very light weight material, which proved perfect for the 65 degree temps we had yesterday, but would be dreamy if you live in warm weather year round.

LAKE PAJAMAS — Everyone’s favorite pima cotton jammies.

BOBBI BROWN EXTRA LIP TINT TRIO — $43 for pack of three of these incredibly moisturizing lip tints. Perfect for everyday.

HILL HOUSE NAP DRESS — Join the “Victorian ghost” movement. (I now own five?) These are such comfortable, beautifully-designed pieces to flounce around the house in.

BALA WEIGHTED BANGLES — These consistently sell out. The chicest wrist weights you’ve ever seen. 30% off.

MY CHRISTMAS DRESS — Bought this at a higher price point — shoot! Now 40% off plus an extra 10% off. Also available on super sale in a dramatic top format.

BOLL AND BRANCH WAFFLE BED BLANKET — So soft, so comfortable, so warm. J’adore. 25% off.

HANKY PANKY — 55% off a three-pack! Wow.

P.S. Full rundown of sales for you here and sales for children here.

What are you up to today, besides shopping all of the amazing Black Friday deals? (I’ve been updating that post all week — wheeee! — I think I’ve completed all of my holiday shopping thanks to the many impressive promotions that started early this year! So fun this go around — there was something sporting and spiriting about the online shopping experience given the bleak circumstances of 2020.)

Today, in between online shopping sessions, I’m excited to work on our Rockefeller Center puzzle, make an inaugural batch of holiday cookies with mini, and finally pull out our boxes of ornaments and Christmas decorations, all while wearing my favorite house slippers, jeans, and my new oversized cardigan. (Also chic: these loafer/slippers with this leather-trim poncho situation…or anything at all with this drool-worthy Gucci cardigan — SWOOOOOON — look for less with this).

A few of my favorite holiday buys this season (have mentioned many of these in previous posts):

CB2 FEATHER TREES

TARTAN TABLE RUNNER

MINI BOXWOOD WREATHS FOR WINDOWS (STRUNG UP WITH GROSGRAIN)

ADVENT WREATH

STOCKING HOLDERS (I BOUGHT A SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT STYLE, BUT WITH SIMILAR REINDEER) FOR OUR STOCKINGS

WHITE DECORATIVE HOUSES (I BOUGHT A SIMILAR SET THAT IS NOW SOLD OUT FROM TARGET)

BOTTLE BRUSH TREES FOR MINI

We have an advent calendar and a nativity set from years past, but I had to mention that this wood set from Target is absolutely adorable. I just ordered one for each of my godchildren!

I am also thrilled we’ve officially entered the phase of the year where Christmas music and movies are openly permissible. A few of my favorite holiday albums: Kacey Musgraves’ twang-y, kitschy “A Very Kacey Christmas” album; Vince Guaraldi Trio’s “A Charlie Brown Christmas”; Elvis Presley’s “Christmas Album”; the 49-track “Soul Christmas” album featuring various artists; and of course Mariah Carey’s “Christmas” album.

A few of my favorite holiday movies, and I am certain I’ll rope Mr. Magpie into watching one or two this weekend…

“THE HOLIDAY”

“ELF”

“ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS”

“HOME ALONE”

“A CHRISTMAS STORY”

“WHITE CHRISTMAS”

“IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE”

“THE FAMILY STONE”

“LOVE ACTUALLY”

“CHRISTMAS VACATION”

A few other movies that aren’t explicitly Christmas but that have prominent Christmas scenes that I will also be re-visiting this season: “Meet Me in St. Louis” (in it, Judy Garland sings the now-classic “Have Yourself a Merry Christmas”), “Harry Potter,” “You’ve Got Mail,” “When Harry Met Sally” (also a great NYE moment), “While You Were Sleeping,” and “Die Hard” (had never seen this before this quarantine, and I went into it thinking “why do people make such a big deal of Bruce Willis?”…now I get it).

P.S. Looking for Christmas gift ideas? Here are some starting points: gifts for men; gifts for women; small business gift ideas; gourmet gift ideas; gifts for babies; gifts for toddlers; gifts for older children.

I have updated these to include a few items I bought for loved ones this year:

NEW BALANCE HEAT LOFT RUNNING PULLOVER FOR MEN (25% OFF!)

LAKE PAJAMAS (ON SALE!)

PLAYSKOOL TRANSFORMERS FOR LITTLE BOYS

YOUNG, WILD, AND FRIEDMAN SENSORY KITS

KIWI CO STEM ACTIVITY SUBSCRIPTION KITS

MAILEG HOUSE

P.P.S. The silhouette of Christmas, two years ago, after I’d just fallen and injured myself. Yikes!

P.P.P.S. A tough Christmas.

Happy Thanksgiving, Magpies!

I am deeply grateful for each of you and your companionship this trying year. I will specifically never (not ever! not ever ever!) forget your outpouring of kindness and support after I shared that I had contracted COVID earlier this year, and I have treasured your intellectual and emotional camaraderie on subjects as disparate as the uses of sorrow and the things we cared about at 18 (almost none of which matters now).

This is a weird year, and I know that most of us are spending the holidays not as we wish to, but as we must. Hang in there, pour an extra glass of champagne, put on that nap dress, and may God bless you and yours.

xxx

Jen

P.S. Our family Thanksgiving prayer — which always (!) brings a tear to my eye — is here. I know many of you have adopted this in your own families. I doubt I’ll be able to get through it this year in particular without crying.

P.P.S. If you’re looking for diversion (and/or are new here!), introduce yourself to the Magpie community here! I love reading these answers. So many interesting people read this blog.

P.P.P.S. If you want a total escape…

Links are back up and running! I’m so sorry for the inconvenience earlier, but everything should be working in my first post from today.

Now: a few really amazing deals I’ve found on toys and clothing for children during this sale season:

+TUBBY TODD: 15% off sitewide, plus extra promotions for purchases over $100. Their all-over ointment is magic — a must-have if you are a new mom! Works on everything from diaper rash to baby acne and even eczema.

+THE BEAUFORT BONNET COMPANY: 40% off everything (+ free shipping) with code PINKFRIDAY, including Christmas pajamas, which are selling quickly. (You can see Hill’s exact pair above!) Also a great time to buy her that precious Christmas dress.

+ZULILY: Ooly products on sale! I’ve never seen this brand on Zulily and — as you know — I’m in love with this brand for art supplies for my children, and in fact had already ordered a few packs of their gel crayons for the holidays, but now I’m going back and considering these dot paints and some of their coloring books for my “emergency stockpile” of activities. While at Zulily, note that CPC is back, and you can still snag these perfect-for-Christmas cord overalls for your little man (Hill owns! — these run big; I would size down).

+ANTHROPOLOGIE: 30% off Olli Ella, including their absolutely adorable baby doll pram and dollhouse. The pram won’t ship until after Christmas but this is the kind of item you might buy now and set aside for the birthday. (I never see this brand on sale!)

+BELLABLISS: 40% off with code THANKFUL. I remember mini wearing a past-season variation on this precious romper and swooning over her in it. I also love these Christmas shortalls for a little boy. I prefer the look of shorter shorts on Hill (I feel like so many of these rompers have big, baggy legs that go down below the knee), and this fits the bill.

+NORDSTROM: Some price breaks on darling Janod gifts, like this cool aquatic puzzle (which teaches them how to use screws!) that I just snagged for Hill at 40% off and this tractor puzzle (also 40% off, and also snagged).

+MINNOW SWIM: Starting at 8 PM PST, all swimsuits are 20% off. I am buying mini this for next summer — it is TOO GOOD. I find this brand runs true to size, so will probably size up from her current size so it fits next year.

+ELLIFOX: A wide range of items marked down, including their current-season holiday collection. A few of my favorite pieces are this Lullaby Set dress (and bubbles/rompers for little brother and sister), the Little English playsuits (I bought these for Hill in every size when under a year), and this kitschy-cute smocked Santa dress from Avanini.

+1212: 25% off with code BF25. I wrote about this at some length in my big Black Friday roundup, but the absolute best, softest baby basics and I especially liked their onesies when my littles were tiny.

+MAISONETTE: Up to 30% off a selection of items, including the other set of holiday pajamas I bought for both of my children by Petite Plume (I also had to snag the matching eye masks), a beyond adorable baby grand piano (!!!), and my favorite face masks (a very 2020 stocking stuffer).

+CARTER’S: Has some insane deals on jammies, including this $10 (!) Santa pair for babies and this pink pajama set for toddlers.

UPDATE (2:18 P.M.): Links appear to be back in working order! Apologies for the confusion.

UPDATE (11 A.M.): Hi Magpies! A lot of my links to amazing shopping finds are not working at the moment. I am working with my technology partner to resolve this issue. Sorry for the inconvenience.

Part two of my latest batch of shopping inquiries! (Part one here, and more of what you might be looking for here.)

Q: A beautiful LBD for a special occasion (to be celebrated at home).

A: This dress (seen above, and currently on sale for 40% off). Wowza. More options here and here.

Q: Gifts for both of my sister-in-law’s families — one large family gift for each.

A: I might opt for a gourmet gift from this list, possibly a gift box from Milk Bar (this set?) or a Callie’s Biscuits box. Alternately, a game for the family to enjoy might be nice — a chess set or an indoor bowling kit — or perhaps a melamine dining set to enjoy al fresco meals at home. If you are looking for something more substantial (no pun intended), these weighted blankets are all the rage and something everyone can argue over using — er, enjoy.

Q: TV stand decor. At a loss for how to style mine beyond the actual TV.

A: I hear you! You don’t want too much up there to impede or compete with your TV-watching. I would say a stack of coffee table books in a carefully curated set of colors with an objet (suggestions here) on top on one end and a green plant on the other — maybe a potted boxwood? That’s what we currently have going on in our living room, and it helps tie the room together without feeling too cluttered.

Q: Looking at Sheertex tights — seem to good to be true? Need tights for work in winter.

A: I honestly hadn’t heard of this brand until you wrote me about it! I have been a Spanx girl through and through for over a decade. I think the quality is amazing and I like the compression. However, I am currently looking to upgrade to Wolford Matte 80 Denier, la creme de la creme in hosiery!

Q: A living room lamp.

A: Floor lamps I love: this tripod style (look for less), this acrylic style, and this mechanical-looking style.

Table lamps I love: this chinoiserie style, this Jonathan Adler geometric style, this bone inlay style, this Aerin beauty, this ceramic style.

Q: Subtle but elegant area rugs under $400.

A: I would suggest Erin Gates’ collection. This 8×10 size (!) is $400, and it looks like something out of a Ralph Lauren ad, and this one is refined and plush and belongs in a Nancy Meyers living room. I shared more rugs I love here, and some of them fit the bill (under $400) if you’re looking for area rugs around 5×7.

Q: Pointy-toe cognac/camel work flats at a reasonable price and available in Canada. Sarah Flint is out…

A: Margaux! Impossibly chic and in the greatest camel color.

Q: Timeless luxury clutch. BFF has the BV pouch and I love it but can’t copy her! Something similar?

A: Oo such a fun one — what about a Chanel wallet on a chain? You can tuck the chain inside to use as a clutch, but nice to have the option to wear as a crossbody, too. Drool.

Q: Gifts for dads and brothers. Likes: boating, history, genealogy, and wine.

A: A starting point for men’s gifts here, but a few thoughts related to their listed interests:

+Depending on their degree of sophistication in wine (this might be insulting to, like, a trained sommelier), we use this What to Eat with What You Drink book constantly — maybe this and some wine from a local vineyard? (My parents-in-law frequently send us wine from Early Mountain Vineyards in VA.) Great stocking stuffer: this amazing champagne stopper. Actually works! Read the reviews!

+A rare/vintage book from this online shop that relates to their interests.

+Yeti mugs or lowballs for their next boating adventure (depending on if they set sail at coffee or cocktail hour). They come with splash lids (boat-friendly!) and are insulated to keep their beverages at just the right temp.

Q: A cute laundry basket that isn’t woven (wicker or rattan)!

A: Poppin! We use this blue one in Hill’s room. Comes in great colors! Alternately, Yamazaki always has attractive storage solutions — if you’re open to one without a liner, love the look of this.

Q: A nice but not too $$ gift for someone you don’t know well. (An in-law’s new partner…)

A: There are some good options along these lines in my Stocking Stuffer roundup — but if you’re looking for something more substantial (around $50), perhaps a Caran d’Ache pen and notebook, a beautiful mug, or a pair of digital tiles. My mom has also given a lot of Everlane and Patagonia to significant others of her children in years past (before those people became children-in-law) — both brands are nice, substantial, and “inoffensive” (by that I mean, a safe play — who doesn’t love Everlane and Patagonia? — and because they are more along the lines of outerwear, they don’t feel too intimate/personal). Something like this fleece sweatshirt or this fleece pullover might be just the ticket.

Q: How to dress my husband.

A: Ha! Todd Snyder has been my strategy for the past few years (bonus! they are running a great Black Friday promotion where you can save up to 30% off right now). I love that they walk the line between traditional and, for lack of a better word, urban — or stylized. They also offer great colors! I feel like all men’s clothing is navy, brown, or green, but Todd Snyder dares to venture into bright blues, oranges, yellows, pinks, etc. I buy Mr. Magpie several head-to-toe outfits at a time from them a few times a year. This winter checklist is a good starting point — I would start with some cords and a great sweater. I find that the way they style their models online is instructive (sometimes I copy their entire looks), and their in-store staff at their flagship store has also been very helpful on visits in years past — now they offer free email styling consultation, which might also be helpful.) I also recently discovered Taylor Stitch, a more rugged-leaning menswear label. I’m intrigued by their textured shirting, like this houndstooth and this corduroy.

Let me know if more suggestions would be interesting for a standalone post.

Q: Footless neutral or light blue one-piece for newborn boy. Photographer wants feet out!

A: If you can do stripes, this Kissy Kissy playsuit was one of my favorites for Hill, and if you don’t mind a small applique on the front, I adored him in these Little English rompers! But if you want true solids, Kyte carries them and Hanna Andersson, too. Precious!

Q: Christmas dresses for my wife.

A: So sweet! I did an entire roundup of my favorite holiday dresses here. This one is so cheery! Feel free to email me any time with specifics like style, pricepoint, etc and I can do a deeper dive.

Q: Christmas/holiday cards. Traditional, classic, not too modern, non-photo.

A: This is tough to find — so many of them are photo-centric! I’d say your best bet is to find an Etsy shop whose designs you like and ask if they will work with you to adapt one to be photo-less. That’s what I’ve done! Currently working with EW Designs on this exact subject. HoneyBearPages also has beautiful work that might be adaptable. I’ve also worked in the past with Sweetly Said Press and Dinglewood Designs — both were joys to collaborate with and yielded the most stunning letterpress designs!

Another hack: search for “Holiday Moving Cards” (tend not to be photo-centric, but to have holiday themes!) and just change up the phrasing to suit your own needs!

P.S. My favorite home gear.

P.P.S. My latest shopping finds.

P.P.P.S. An ode to the em dash and words I hate.

Aren’t the cookies above, from baker Molly Yeh, stunning?! My skills are nowhere near there, but the colors and designs were inspiring!

Sharing some of my absolute favorite holiday baking recipes here:

MY CUT-OUT SUGAR COOKIES (RECIPE REPRINTED BELOW — MY SISTER CLAIMS TO DREAM ABOUT THESE MULTIPLE TIMES A YEAR)

MY GRANDMA CARM’S HORNS (RECIPE REPRINTED BELOW — JAM-FILLED BUTTER COOKIES)

MARTHA STEWART’S GINGERBREAD COOKIES (I LOVE THESE BECAUSE THEY ARE SOFT AND PILLOWY RATHER THAN BRITTLE/HARD)

INA GARTEN’S PECAN SQUARES (HEAVEN HEAVEN HEAVEN — I LOVE TO GIVE THESE AWAY AS GIFTS)

CRACKER TOFFEE (RECIPE BELOW)

CORNFLAKE CHRISTMAS WREATH (RECIPE BELOW — MY MOM HAS MADE THIS EVERY YEAR FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER AND IT IS THE PERFECT BAKING ACTIVITY FOR SMALL HANDS TO HELP WITH — WILL ABSOLUTELY BE DOING THIS WITH MINI THIS YEAR!)

Magpie Sugar Cut-Out Cookies.

Cream 1 cup butter and 1 cup sugar. Mix in 2 eggs and ¼ tsp salt.  In a small ramekin, dissolve 1 teaspoon baking soda in 4 tablespoons milk. Add 1 teaspoon vanilla to the dough and add milk mix alternately with 4 cups all-purpose flour.  Roll out dough. Cut with cutters. Bake at 350 for 8-10 mins.

Grandma Carm’s Christmas Horns.

Work 3 tablespoons sugar into 5 cups flour and add 1 pound butter.  Mix in ½ cup sour cream and 2 dry yeast packets. Add 3 beaten egg yolks and two tablespoons vinegar.  Knead. Store in fridge over night. Shape dough and roll in circles. Fill with 1 tablespoon apricot jam and roll like crescents.  Brush with beaten egg white and sprinkle with chopped walnuts. Bake 15-20 minutes at 350 and sprinkle heavily with powdered sugar.

Cracker Toffee.

Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Line a cookie sheet with parchment and then place saltine crackers in a single layer on top — as many as will fit, edge to edge. In a small pot, combine 1 cup (two sticks) unsalted butter and 1 cup light brown sugar (packed) and bring to a boil. Once bubbling/boiling, continue to boil for three minutes, until deep caramel color. Immediately pour over saltines and spread to cover crackers completely. (Work quickly, the sugar-butter mixture hardens fast!) Bake in oven for 5-6 minutes and sprinkle 2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips over top. Let sit a few minutes to melt and spread over top. If chocolate does not melt, you can return pan to oven for a few minutes and spread then. Sprinkle with chopped pecans. Cool completely, break into pieces, and eat.

Cornflake Christmas Wreaths.

Melt 1/2 cup (1 stick) butter in a large pot. Add 1 10-oz package marshmallows and stir until melted. Mix in green food coloring. Stir in 4.5 cups cornflakes. Form into either one large round wreath on a serving platter or multiple small wreaths on a cookie sheet lined with parchment paper. Dot with red M&Ms or red hot candies and finish with red velvet bows. Let cool completely.

Holiday Baking Supplies and Accoutrements.

+This enormous bin of plastic cookie cutters is the absolute best. For $15, it covers every holiday as well as nearly any theme you could want (letters! sports! animals!) and I find them better than the more expensive/fancier-seeming metal ones — they do not bend or rust like their metal counterparts! I also like that even within a given holiday, the set includes bigger sizes and smaller ones — we have proper enormous gingerbread men (they are like 6 inches tall!), which is so fun for a dramatic presentation. Did I mention the entire kit is $15?! I’ve had mine for over a decade and will never part ways with it.

+I love this $15 wreath plate and this beautiful fir tree from Vietri one from for showcasing your holiday baking.

+I had a recent inquiry about sprinkles! I have really liked the sprinkles from India Tree, which I first discovered at Sur La Table. I especially like their sanding sugar. However, I did recently discover this fun brand, Sprinkle Pop, which does over-the-top themed sprinkle mixes and I think I will order some for decorating with mini.

+My favorite way to gift baked goods is in cellophane bags tied up with an enormous velvet, grosgrain, or satin ribbon and a pretty gift tag. If you’re serving a bigger set of cookies, I love to gift on melamine plates like these or even stoneware plates like these (that my girlfriend Inslee designed for Anthro!!!) that friends can just keep! (In that case, wrap in cellophane and tie off with ribbon.)

+Alternately, Martha Stewart used to make the most charming treat boxes/bags, and you can still find a handful if you look hard online (also here), though I don’t think she’s produced these for a few years. Too bad — I loved her stuff!

+These scallop-edged treat boxes in kraft brown are also darling! Imagine topped off with a pretty tag/sticker.

+Williams-Sonoma Gold Touch baking pans and sheets are my favorite to bake with. They are heavy, non-stick, and do not warp. I feel like I always talk about “not warping” as the ultimate marker of quality in cookware, but I’m haunted by some of the inexpensive stuff I bought in college, where the baking pans never actually laid flat, and were therefore always yielding uneven cooking results and at risk of toppling onto the floor.

+That said, my head has been turned by these Great Jones sheet pans that I’ve been seeing all over. Has anyone tried? The dishwasher safe element intrigues me — you aren’t supposed to put most baking sheets in the dishwasher and as a result they can be difficult to keep pristine.

+Upgrade your baking game this season with Nielsen Massey vanilla and almond extracts — the best. Or splurge on Guittard chocolate chips or Scharffen Berger chocolate. I also always and only bake with Plugra or Kerrygold unsalted butter. It’s expensive, but especially in baking, you can really tell the difference. It yields the richest flavor!

+Also, take it from me: buy your peppermint and almond extracts now. I have in years past had the HARDEST time finding these in the run-up to Christmas, and I anticipate this year will be particularly scarce with more people at home looking to celebrate any way possible.

+Meri Meri always does the cutest cupcake decor kits, like these and these. Mini would have a blast decorating with these.

+I’ve written about this recently, but this cake dome (double as a punch bowl if you invert the stand and place the dome on top of it!) has been a true MVP in our house for a decade. I nearly always keep something in it, whether baked goods, store-bought treats, or — inverted — an enormous bowl of fruit. I also find the pedestal handy on its own for creating dimension in a tablescape, i.e., you could elevate a pie on it around a bunch of other baked goodies. I also have always loved the cake stands from Mosser, which are usually made of milk glass, and this green would be so elegant if you go with a green/blue theme for the holidays. Also a fun way to showcase your baked goods on a pedestal!

+Peppermint crunch sprinkles! Would be fun to mix these into chocolate-peppermint cookies.

+This nordicware mini Bundt tin would be such a special way to serve up your aunt’s classic bundt cake. Would look gorgeous on a small appetizer-size melamine plate, wrapped in cellophane, with a big ribbon to tie it off.

+Don’t forget the apron! This one gets rave reviews (and boasts that it has been worn by chefs with Michelin stars!), this one makes me feel nostalgic/as if I am Zooey Deschanel, and of course WS is always a classic (this tartan one is fun, and BONUS: you can twin with your mini. Alternately, you can get a mommy and me set in a classic stripe for much less here or here). You can even get an apron for your little one’s AG doll!

P.S. More kitchen gear I love here, gourmet gift ideas here, and thoughts on being a pragmatic cook.

P.P.S. If you’ve been eyeing the Nintendo Switch for your children, quick! I found it restocked in this limited edition pastel colorway here, and available with free shipping.

Who is ready for some online sale shopping? I will be updating this post with all my favorite scores and finds from Black Friday through Cyber Monday, including many small businesses:

+OUTNET: Extra 25% off almost everything with code BLACKFRIDAY, including the silk charmeuse trousers you never knew you always needed, Zimmermann magic for your first post-COVID social event, and a CHIC houndstooth blazer (pair with black turtleneck and leggings for your next Zoom meeting).

+TUCKERNUCK: Up to 30% off your purchase with code BIGSALE. I have been eyeing this Gucci-esque sweater forever, but I also know how many of you rave about Dudley Stephens fleece, and it’s included, too! Also a good chance to score RR heart jammies for you and your little one.

+BARE NECESSITIES: Taking the 20% off promotion to invest in the Wolford tights I’ve been eyeing.

+TALBOTS: I have several pairs of great boots and shoes from Talbots. My favorite quilted boots (Chanel vibes!) and my darling tartan mules are on sale for 50% off starting 11/25.

+ANTHROPOLOGIE: 30% off everything if you sign up for their (free!) AnthroPerks program, so you can score this darling dress, this plaid cardigan (MEANT to be worn with No. 6 clog boots), or something sparkly for NYE (this dress would work with (or without) modest bump, and j’adore this Saloni-esque style). Finally, is this not the most perfect lounge-y Christmas dress? Festive in color but easy to wear. Basically a nightgown.

+TODD SNYDER: A tiered sale (20% off $200+, 25% off $300+, 30% off $500+) at my favorite menswear store. I am eyeing these cool sneaks (this brand made my men’s gift roundup!), this cord shirt, and these slick plaid Christmas pants for my man. Their slim-fit cords are also SUPER attractive — Mr. Magpie has a few pairs.

+LAKE PAJAMAS: Select pieces of everyone’s favorite pajamas on sale. I just ordered a few of pair of these as gifts, and I absolutely loved these maternity pajamas while nursing — great gift for an expecting/new mama. Bonus: free shipping over $50. Do not wait on this promotion — these do sell out.

+LAURA MERCIER: 25% off everything; 30% off orders over $150. I ended up not liking the Ilia tinted serum I bought in the Sephora sale (full review coming soon), so I re-ordered LM’s tried-and-true tinted moisturizer. I alternate between this and Chantecaille’s tinted moisturizer most days! Two other items I love from LM: their eye primer (which I use in lieu of shadow most days but can of course be used as a base layer as intended!) and their eye shadow in “Vanilla Nuts,” which is the most perfect neutral shade for me. It brightens the eye while still looking very natural.

+1212: 25% off everything with code BF25. If you are a new or expecting mom, 1212 makes the absolute best onesies and leggings. The softest pima cotton, only two snaps to fuss with on the onesies, and an extra stretchy head opening for those tiny heads. These pieces are expensive, but they hold up beautifully — I passed all of them down from Emory to Hill. Especially when my babies were itty bitty, I only wanted to put them in the softest cotton pieces and these are in my opinion the absolute best. They also have precious footies. A great option if you have a new baby you’d like to shower with a gift! (Also, they have a Hanukkah-centric pair of holiday pajamas!) The brand runs a bit small, so I would size up if in question.

+BOLL&BRANCH: 25% off everything. A great time to upgrade your bed with my favorite sheets and bed blanket. (Love love love love.)

+NICOLA BATHIE: 25% off a selection of her gorgeous earrings with code friday. Eyeing these everyday pearl earrings — I have so many statement earrings but sometimes I want something low-profile. This is a great time for a bride to buy her special-day earrings or bridesmaid gifts!

+OUTDOOR VOICES: I actually do not care for their leggings, but Mr. Magpie lives in their joggers and I am eyeing a pair for myself — up to 35% off in select colors.

+NET-A-PORTER: Up to 50% off amazing fashion finds. They just launched today (11/23) an additional 15% off select items, including these perfect black boots, my Thanksgiving dress, my favorite maternity/postpartum dress, and (!!!) my beloved Nike running shoes.

+NORDSTROM: My favorite bra is 62% off (!!) and you can get a pack of 3 of my favorite lip tints from Bobbi Brown for 25% off. And again, my Nikes on sale (in a different colorway — $89 in bag!). Also, some amazing Janod scores for little ones — I bought Hill this.

+MAJE and SANDRO: 40% off everything at Maje and sister brand Sandro, meaning that you can score this tweed coat dress (which was one of the most popular items I featured last month) at a serious discount. Absolute perfection for a Christening or a demure wedding-related festivity. I am eyeing this perfect sweater dress with the scalloped detail and pearl fasteners — OMG. And let’s not forget Maje’s fleet of perfect little cardigans — eyeing this and this wow wow wow.

+H&M: Everything 30% off if you are a member (free to sign up!), but I must snag the sparkly dress at $40. Also darling: this fair isle sweater and these legging sets (perfect for layering under snowsuits or lounging at home) for children, this shearling coverall for babies, and this on-trend shearling shacket (pair with Kirkwood combat boots and go on with your bad self). This houndstooth bag is also reminiscent of the wildly popular Dior book tote

+HILL HOUSE: 20% off almost everything, but LBH – we’re all here for their nap dresses, which, sadly, are probably already almost all sold out. (I got to the site three minutes post-launch and they’d already sold out of the print I wanted!) My favorite styles are the Ellie and the Caroline, but I did manage to snag a new style for myself, the Nesli in their holiday tartan.

Happy holidays!