While in NYC for the bachelorette party, my Parsons-bound sister showed me some of her most recent sketches.  One of them was a gorgeous dress in mint green that I haven’t quite been able to get out of my mind.  What an under-used, ridiculously beautiful color — feminine, retro, and refreshing all at once.  Nothing could look quite as cool and collected for the intensely muggy summer weather.

And so, in honor of my sister’s well-appointed palette, let’s get minted.  We’ll start with these absolutely gorgeous Rupert Sanderson pumps — TDF and on sale for $297 at The Outnet:

Lovely and ladylike with a cream or gray dress, like this retro-chic, Mad-Men-era Erdem dress ($548, The Outnet):

Round out the look with a gorgeous oversized-stone bib necklace by Kendra Scott ($170, Max and Chloe):

For an evening out, pair with this chic Kotur box clutch ($899, Shirise):

In search of other evening or cocktail appropriate options?  Try this gorgeous Shoshanna dress in refreshing mint ($363, Shopbop):

Or maybe this structured Kirribilla number ($395, eDressMe):

Both would look amazing with these kickily-printed Pucci wedges ($297, The Outnet):

Add a glass beaded necklace, like this inexpensive Anthropologie bauble ($32, Anthropologie):

If you like a chunkier style, this Anthology multi-strand necklace will do the trick ($88, Nordstrom):

While I do love the mint-with-gray-or-white combo, you can achieve a slightly different, more contrastive aesthetic with this cute-as-a-button DKNY bow-clasp belt (on sale for $49.50, My Wardrobe):

I like the idea of layering it on top of a black sheath dress with the Rupert Sanderson pumps above or maybe just using it to emphasize your waist while wearing a draped soft green dress like this inexpensive Fred Flare number ($54, Fred Flare):

Accent with a dainty Amanda Rudey amethyst ring ($130, Max and Chloe) and some jet black pumps (you know the drill — Louboutin, Louboutin, Louboutin):

Taking things in a more day-wear appropriate direction, consider investing in this just-for-a-Sunday-cruise (or just-for-garden-decoration) mint green, retro-style bike ($144, JustBicycles):

Add some trim white ankle-length skinny jeans or pants, a breezy white sleeveless blouse (MMCouture, $70, PiperLime), and some eye-catching white flats ($392, Bluefly):

Spruce it up with this Rachel Leigh statement necklace ($167, ChickDownTown):

Very Audrey Hepburn, especially if you invest in the Kate Spade bike basket featured below (seems to be sold out online at the moment, but I swear I just saw it a day or two ago!)

Cool as a cucumber!
Note: I apologize for the brevity of this posting and the upcoming week’s.  I will be in Jury Duty for the better part of the week and feel all out of sorts (not to mention sadly far from my little Macbook) between being out of my office at a particularly busy time and schlepping to/from Judiciary Square (as I’m not close to a metro stop, this makes the daily commute in excess of an hour, hour-and-a-half).  Ick.

A word of warning: this will be a bit more whimsical and conceptual than the average Magpie post, but I just feel that I can’t go any longer without acknowledging the huge fashion influence that Lady GaGa has had on pop culture over the past couple of years.  (I’m also slightly obsessed with her music.  And by slightly I mean that I own all of her tracks and work out to them regularly.)  So take these styles with a grain of salt, but know that many of them can be remixed into your wardrobe in one-off fashion.  Sometimes you need a little edge — a bit of grit — to fold into your otherwise well-manicured appearance.  And who better to draw inspiration from than the spotlight-stealing Lady GaGa?

She’s been compared to Madonna, she’s frequently hailed for her fearless fashion sense (especially in terms of her tendency to wear haute couture in the real world), and she’s all around nutso — but what I like about her aesthetic is the seamless integration of 80s pop, irreverence, and futurism.  It’s scene-stealing, and it all begins with some killer shades (Ciccio, $175, Ssense):

If you’re worried the sisor shade look will go majorly out by next year, consider these inxpensive Aldos ($12, Aldo):

The crystal studs along the top are tres GaGa, as are these rockin Giuseppe Zanotti pumps (on sale for $651, Bergdorf Goodman):

To get the whole look down, pair with a disco-ready top (Velvet, $120, MyTheresa) and a mini bandage skirt (the brand “Pleasure Doing Business” popularized the style a year or two ago, but the style below is by Blank — on sale for $58, Bloomingdale’s):

Maybe a little disc0 ball ring is in order?  Slip this Kate Spade bauble on ($65, Bloomingdale’s):

Or how about a little pop star lace get up?  Madonna was into it, and so is GaGa.

Get the (much less risque) look with this little Thakoon jumper ($525, La Garconne):

(You probably know Thakoon because First Lady Michelle Obama sports his wares regularly.  Tres chic, ca!)  Pair with the Zanotti pumps above, this glittery mesh-metal Felix Rey clutch ($240, Felix Rey), and a disco ball cocktail ring (Kenneth Jay Lane, $100, Saks):

Alternately, start with this sparkling little Karen Millen “chandalier” clutch ($175, Karen Millen):

And pair with a futuristic-cool all-white lace dress like this “Ain’t Misbehavin” style by Trina Turk (on sale for $201, Trina Turk):

Especially smashing when worn with these TDF Louboutins ($1,895, Net-A-Porter):

Now, we’ve all seen GaGa go pantless (and shirtless)

…but hopefully no one in the real world will do so.  You can still get the pop star cool factor by layering this funky little bodysuit by Rosa Cha ($30o, Net-A-Porter) beneath a highwaisted skirt ($49.90, Express), however:

GaGa would top it all of with sunglasses — maybe these unexpectedly contrasting Mosley Tribes?  (Snag ‘em for $180 at Barney’s.)

And — you know — some not-at-all-uber-self-conscious gloves (Agnelle, $92, Galeries Lafayette):

Now, we’ve all seen and been alternately mesmerized or repulsed by the bow hair do she’s rocked:

But you can take the look home less riskily with this Jennifer Ouellette headband (on sale for $49, Barney’s):

Consider adding it to this futuristic, structured dress by Zac Posen ($1,690, Net-A-Porter):

Accent with pyramid stud earrings (CCSkye, $150, CoutureCandy) and ring (Malibu, $150, CoutureCandy):

She’d probably opt for gloves as her major fashion accoutrement, however.  (Not advisable for us mortals — but you can pick these up for other uses, i.e. keeping your hands warm in the winter, on sale for $79 at Thomas Pink):

And maybe these fierce Ruthie Davis pumps ($405, SheBoutique):

Now, any of the above pieces could be singled out and worn on it’s own to great success — so give it a whirl!  But if the entire (disco) schtick is too much for you, just curl up in bed with this vintage-style tee and call it a night ($26, Delia’s):

Like many old-guard Washingtonian ladies, my mother purchases a season subscription to the Kennedy Center ballet series every year.  She frequently (and generously) takes me as her date, as she did last night, when we attended the “Ballet Across America” program featuring acts from the Houston Ballet, the Suzanne Farrell Ballet, and North Carolina Dance Theater.  I’m normally more keen on the full-length ballets like “Swan Lake,” “Romeo & Juliet,” and — a recent favorite — “Don Quixote” because I love the costumes, the sets, and the drama, but last night really challenged that perspective.  I was obsessed with the concluding act in particular, which featured a live bluegrass band and an enthralling hybrid dance style somewhere between classic ballet and square dancing.  But before I indulge myself in a full-length review of the evening (one dancer could not spin or leap without making the most alarmingly strained look on his face), let’s get to the fashion side of things: how to dress as a prima ballerina in your everyday life.

It doesn’t necessarily begin with a tutu, even though Sarah Jessica Parker had a Major Moment sporting one in the opening credits of “Sex and the City.”

You can just get your feet wet by adopting the petal pink-on-white color combo as our own.  Maybe inch your way toward the ethereal look with a manicure in the classic, best-selling Essie color “Ballerina Slippers” ($8, EssieShop):

(This will likely be my shade of choice for my wedding day.)  Consider this breath-taking Caroline Hedaya open-back dress in summer-ready linen ($298, Shopbop):

It’s the perfect way of subtly nodding to the ballerina style without sporting a full-on tutu and I’m in love with it.  Offset with feminine enormastuds (I’m head over heels for these adorably-titled “I Do” studs by Kendra Scott — $70, Max & Chloe), perfect blush pink flower-adorned pumps  (Martinez Valero, on sale for $149, Endless), and a fluttery little clutch (Sondra Roberts, $98, Nordstrom):

Other dress options  include this gorgeously draped Alice & Olivia in luxe blush silk georgette ($370, Net-A-Porter)

Could be worn with jet black Louboutins for an edgier vibe or kept light with some blush-toned peeptoes.  Alternately, go totally glam with these OMG-worthy bejeweled Giuseppe Zanottis ($1,075, Endless):

You pretty much can’t wear any other jewelry with those puppies.  They speak for themselves.  Maybe just some simple mother of pearl earrings — these Ylang23 Vintage enormastuds look they were made to match ($175, Ylang23):

These lovely Judith Jacks would also look gorgeous ($175, Nordstrom):

Looking for another dress option?  “The Adelaide” (also by Alice & Olivia) is frothy perfection and could be easily dressed up or down ($298, Shopbop):

If you’re going for the more formal route, keep in mind that ballerinas wear a lot of diamonds and crystals on stage because they are eye-catching, especially when they hit the stage lights amidst their routines — why not act as though you’re on centerstage as well?  Check out the Ylang23 Vintage clips I feature below — or, if you’re really glamming it up, this chunky J. Crew tangle of a bib necklace (on sale for $95, J. Crew):

Or maybe, for something slightly more subdued, this Lee Angel adjustable variation ($300, Lee Angel):

Now, if you are willing to go the Carrie Bradshaw route — go you, fearless Magpie!  Balmain was on your page last season when they featured this wearable art:

Pretty much TDF.  But you’ve got to be careful to strike just the right balance when you’re sporting something tutu-like, or you can quickly end up look inadvertently punkish or childlike — neither of which are particularly fetching, in my opinion.  For a safer bet (a modified tutu), this darling Betsey Johnson concoction will take you places ($378, ModCloth):

(Simply replace the electric blue sash with soft pink.)  Wear with sparkling enorma-studs or this beaded Day Birger et Mikkelsen necklace ($66, House of Frasier) and a pair of nude pumps — these Giuseppe Zanotti’s are endlessly wearable (they literally go with everything — $595, Endless):

These oh-so-lovely Pedro Garcias (on sale for $301, MyWardrobe) could also work for a slightly more formal setting if you swap out the beaded necklace for some diamonds (real or fake):

Round out the look with a flirty cocktail ring (Kate Spade, on sale for $46, Nordstrom):

For a similar — but slightly more Vegas-inspired take (check out the sequined bodice) — try on this Alice & Olivia (on sale in limited sizes for $331 at Neiman Marcus, but I think you’d be able to track it down in your size for the full price of $495 elsewhere):

If you’re into the tulle look but not so sure about the uber-femininity of the blush pink color, consider this black Lanvin tulle skirt ($490, Yoox):

Pair with sparkling enorma-studs (I’ve featured these before, but they are just the perfect style — $170, Ylang23), a super fitted strapless top (corset if you dare — can you imagine the looks you’d pull topping it off with the D&G tulle version below — a modest $2,350), and some amped up evening shoes (below — Pedro Garcias, on ridiculous Super Sale for $123, Chickdowntown):

Swoon.  For something a bit more dressed-down, consider this ballerina-pink sundress by Lilly Pulitzer — the “Betsey” ($248, Lilly Pulitzer):

Pair with these adorable (and affordable!) flower studs ($20, TopShop):

Or opt for the white eyelet version of the dress above and swap in a ballerina-ready bib necklace, like this covetable Sparkling Sage style ($158, Nordstrom):

Love the druzy effect of the stones.  Pair with gold sparkly sandals or heels, depending on the formality of the event — you could get away with simple gold t-straps for a summer graduation party or some be-sequined peep-toes for a cocktail event.  If you’re still seeking ways to dress down the ballerina aesthetic, maybe this strawberry frosting-of-a-dress by ModCloth tickles your fancy ($65, ModCloth)?

How precious?!  Wear with simple white t-straps — why am I so in love with the simplicity of the K. Jacques below ($245, Net-A-Porter)?

Bone-colored flats could also work.  Alternately, this butter yellow scoop neck dress by TopShop is reminiscent of ballerina garb ($32, TopShop):

(Keep in mind that TopShop earned a pretty penny when Kate Moss released her first line for the brand a couple of seasons ago and featured a black tutu dress that instantly sold out.  So if you’re wondering how The Fashion Magpie can jump from yesterday’s rocker chic Kate Moss look to a soft-and-dainty ballerina aesthetic today — just remember that fashion is, in essence, all of one thread.  Excuse the wretched play on words, but it’s true — consider Moss’ famous Vogue spread from last year, where she wore a kickin Vivienne Westwood tutu and some absolutely bananas shoes:

The devoted Magpies out there will agree that true fashion is a study in contrasts.)  Returning to the inspiration at hand, let’s see what other gems we can find — perhaps this frilly-fun tutu-inspired skirt by Paul & Joe (on sale for $214, MyTheresa):

Don’t worry, it’s not as brief as it appears.  Pair with a simple white tank and some strappy flat sandals — I’m gaga over Madewell’s recent launch of their eBoutique, so I’m going to continue to prominently feature their affordable classics, including the goes-with-and-under-anything “Ideal Tank” ($18, Madewell) and the Cypress sandal, which I’m absolutely in love with ($88, Madewell):

It’s a citified tutu look.   Very Rachel Bilson-hits-up-the-farmer’s-market, especially if paired with an of-the-moment cross body bag in a yummy brown leather, like this Rebecca Minkoff ($295, Shopbop):

But before we travel too far afield, consider these lovely, slightly whimsical add-ons to an otherwise straightforward getup of skinny jeans and a little white tee — a fabric-flower necklace (Stein & Blye, $38, Nordstrom) and some canvas ballet flats ($30, TopShop):

Love the ethereal softness of the color and the materials of the items above — they remind me of the sort of dainty loungwear and intimates I tend to reach for, like this prima ballerina terry robe (Juicy Couture, $85, Net-A-Porter):

And this matching petal pink babydoll set (also Juicy, $88, Net-A-Porter):

I’m also in love with Hanky Panky’s super-comfortable undergarment sets — how dainty is this “bliss pink” shade ($37 for top, $18 for bottoms — Zappos)?

While in the boudoir, don’t forget to glam yourself up with a retro-styled sparkle-dusting powder puff ($26, Benefit Cosmetics):

I received one as a gift and I get a kick out of it every time I puff it on.  So old school bombshell.

But back to footwear: note that J. Crew has oodles of darling patterned ballet flats — I’m obsessed with the two pairs below (first pair — $118; second pair with raffia rose accent — $185):

For a slightly glammed-up, gold-accented get-up — how about this Hive & Honey statement necklace ($75, Piper Lime) and these gold Bloch ballet flats ($175, Net-A-Porter):

Love the pink ribbon tie on the necklace — reminds me of ballet shoes.

Ready to dance?!

This post is in honor of my extremely talented baby sister, who is preparing to enter Parson’s School of Design (yep, home to Tim Gunn and “Project Runway”) and become a designer in her own right (look forward to future posts on that development).  She counts Kate Moss amongst her most formative influences — and who doesn’t want to take a walk on the wild side every now and then?  Her unstudied rocker chic look is even appealing to a generally preppy, ladylike sensibility like my own.  Despite the uproar she started in the 90s  (and continues to sustain every coupla years) due to her heroin-thin look, you’ve gotta admit that the lady can dress.  Who else could make me want to wear leather pants?!

Step one in getting the look (even a modified, toned-down variation)?  Invest in lots of black.  (My mother is shuddering at the thought, as she always advises her chickadees to wear more color.)  Step two?  Insist upon a silhouette almost invariably comprised of skinny jeans or black tights, super-high heels, and a shift or voluminous top.  For boho-cool daywear, begin with some just-right black skinnies.  Mine are from J Brand and fit like a dream (on sale for $131, Bluefly):

Make sure you have an oversized black “doctor’s” bag — Moss is partial to Balenciagas, like this “Arena” style ($1,895, Barney’s):

Although I can totally see her with this fringe-adorned Cesare Paciotti (on sale for $600, Zappos):

Top it off with timeless Ray Bans — like my favorite magpie maven, Rachel Bilson, Moss is partial to the Wayfarer –

Snag your own pair for $145 at RayBan:

You may opt to go the slightly irreverent route, layering a vintage-style graphic tee (Rebel Yell, $84, ShopTheTrend) beneath a black boyfriend blazer (Bop Basics, $190, Shopbop):

Moss would likely top it off with a trilby hat and some unexpected footwear — perhaps fringed booties (check out Minnetonka’s back zipper versions for inspiration — $45, Net-A-Porter), lug-soled motorcycle boots, or some “tough gal” zipper-accented heels.  She would be all over these Alexander McQueens ($995, Alexander McQueen):

I pretty much swoon over those shoes — such a well-balanced design — but admit that I don’t think I have the gumption to pull them off.  I’m far too feminine in my sensibility to truly sport the head-to-toe rocker babe aesthetic.  Some of her less-than-edgy looks are more my speed, including her unexpectedly ladylike styling in this Marc Jacobs collarless jacket:

I’d willingly wear the entire outfit, beginning with a navy-and-white breton shirt (Vince, $98, Piper Lime):

Add a collarless jacket (J. Crew frequently has styles available, like the Dauphine, currently on sale for $99, but this DKNY version is arresting — $325, DKNY):

If you willing to spring for it, this hand-painted tweed Marc Jacobs is TDF (to die for) — on sale for $1,025, The Outnet:

Complete the look with some simple ballet flats.  I adore this pair of python-effect white leather Blochs ($185, Net-A-Porter):

The Ray Ban “Cats 5000″ are the perfect topper ($135, Ray Ban):

I like the dark-wash skinny jeans she wears above, but Moss is also known for her acid-wash versions –

Test drive with these behind-the-stage-ready Current/Elliotts (on sale for $185, Net-A-Porter):

Add a fitted leather jacket (Juicy Couture, $698, Shopbop) and some skull-print Alexander McQueen flats ($499, Zappos – she was the first to popularize the skull print scarf, which was all.over.the.place two seasons ago):

Of course, Moss’ footwear is about as adventurous as it comes.  I mentioned a couple examples of styles she’s been spotted in, but she is essentially responsible for the meteoric popularity of the Hunter wellie boot (after she was seen in her own mud-speckled pair at Glastonbury, the largest open-air music festival in the world, in 2007):

You can find these classics all over the place nowadays for $125, including at PiperLime:

She’s also sported classic hippie-chic mukluks (I picked up a pair by Juicy Couture this past winter and obsessed over them — get your own while they are out-of-season and on-sale for $187 at Farfetch.com) and devil-may-care pirate boots (snag a comparable style by H by Hudson for $365 at Madison LA):

In essence, she is one fearless fashionista.  And she can rock it all.

For evening wear, the look begins with black tights — Moss layers them under everything.

I’m partial to Spanx, which truly slim you down and make clothes fit seamlessly ($26, Spanx):

Add a sparkling, uber-mini dress — this Pucci (first below — $1,336, TheOutnet) and this 3.1 Phillip Lim ($416, also TheOutnet) are ridiculously lustworthy:

Of course, Alice & Olivia always carry a sequin-adorned style or two per season ($484, ShopZoe):

And Moss would just as likely be caught in an animal-print inspired version like this eye-catching Charlotte Ronson (on sale for $210, Blue and Cream):

Add some slick pointy-toed pumps, like Moss’ favorite Louboutins — the Pigalle 120s ($595, Net-A-Porter):

I can just as easily imagine her rocking these studded pumps by Luxury Rebel (on sale for $131, Endless):

Then throw on a chunky black cocktail ring — I’m in love with the Boleyn II ring by Megan Greene ($183, Couture Candy):

But this Wendy Mink onyx style lets you get the David Yurman look for far less ($105, Wendy Mink Jewelry):

You can’t go wrong with a little gold minaudiere (Whiting and Davis, $130, Shoes.com):

If you’re fearlessly after the Kate Moss evening-wear look, consider going all out with this big black faux-fur coat (248, French Connection):

Layer it over a slinky, slim-cut black dress, like this affordable T by Alexander Wang find ($105, Net-A-Porter):

Add some platform pumps (my boss owns this pair by Dolce Vita and totally kills in them — $165, Cusp) and a rocker chic cocktail ring (CCSkye, $175, Harmony Lane):

Right on the money.

For evenings out, Moss is rarely without some dangling sparklers — a bit of a departure for the Fashion Magpie, as I obsess over enorma-studs…

These pearl-and-snake TopShop baubles would be perfect ($40, TopShop):

Alternately, these Anton Heunis stunners are just the type of off-the-beaten-track find she would score ($135, Fragments NYC –  call 212.334.9588):

The bottom line with Moss, though, is that you can get away with anything — mussed-up hair, mismatched styles, muddied boots — if you have the swagger.  Rock it!

Addendum

Any Magpies in the Big Apple?  Fly by the Shoshanna Sample Sale  Wednesday, June 16, from 10 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. and Thursday, June 17 from 10 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. at the Shoshanna Show Room (231 West 39th Street, Suite 422 — between 7th and 8th Avenues).  Cash and credit cards accepted.

If you’re into Tucker brand blouses, stop by their sample sale today until 7 pm (Tuesday, June 15) at the Tucker Studio (413 West 14th St, Suite 403 — between 19th and 10th Avenues).

As per usual, this little Magpie cannot approach any event without preparing for the right event.  It just so happens that my over-indulgent sisters and bridesmaids have been planning a bachelorette bash on my behalf (next weekend — I’m counting down the days!), and I, of course, have to have the perfect wardrobe.  Largely inspired by Essie’s “Bachelorette Bash” color, I knew I wanted a silky, hot pink little number for the occasion.

I looked high and low for just the right thing and, finally, after a lazy midday brunch (and a few bellinis) with my girlfriend Miss Sleek, found it at Cusp.  They don’t show it on the site, but it’s a silky fuschia Amanda Uprichard mini — here’s a variation on the style ($194, Pink Mascara):

I’m going to wear it with these OMG perfect gold glitter Christian Louboutin pumps ($595, Bergdorf Goodman):

(Brief story behind these shoes: I saw them, died over them, and responsibly decided against indulging myself given the ridiculous shopping spree I’ve been on all year, courtesy of the wedding.  Then one day I caught a glimpse of them while prowling the Neiman Marcus website and I died again.  I thought: oh no, I definitely do need those puppies smiling back at me from my closet.  And by then — thanks to Sarah Jessica Parker, who wore them in the recent “Sex and the City” film — they were sold out in my size.  I called everywhere — sold out, sold out, sold out (inflection of disdain in the voices of all Louboutin purveyors).  Then, lo and behold, a few days ago, I randomly stumbled upon them again online and checked to see if maybe they had some restocked sizes — AND YES!  — I snagged the last pair of size 35s in the entire USA apparently.)  BUT I had already purchased a pair of backup shoes that I’m bananas over.  Now, don’t judge the brand but aren’t these phenomenal?! (Enzo Angiolini, $79, Nordstrom):

And so budget-friendly!  Woo!  I’ll be keeping both, thank you.  For accessories, I like the idea of some big, glitzy studs (CCSkye, $150, CoutureCandy):

If you’re not afraid of the matchy-matchy, this pyramid ring from my favorite cocktail jeweler, nOir, is ideal ($80, Noir Jewelry):

Alternately, I’m obsessed with this Alexis Bittar bauble ($140, Nordstrom):

Love the sparking gold-and-crystal combo and the organic shape.  If you’re all about the glitz and glamor, test drive this kickin Alice & Olivia ($495, ChickDownTown):

Sure, it’s been all over the place (I feel like I saw 3,983 celebs in it) and may be slightly last year, but — how can you go wrong with a sequined gold mini?!  Very Vegas here-we-come.  My thoughts are: there are some events that just invite you to dress up and over the top, and why not run with that?  If you’re more of a silver gal, check out this deeply discounted Gryphon ($149.50, ChickDownTown):

Love the idea of pairing it with those killer Louboutins I’ve featured a couple of times already ($1,995, Bergdorf Goodman):

If you’d rather play down the sparkly factor, stick with a bright pink, short, girls-just-wanna-have-fun dress, as I did.  I also considered this cinch-waisted, tiered Ali Ro (on sale for $165, Bluefly):

In the end, I decided I wanted something even BRIGHTER — a touch closer to neon — but I’m kind of in love with this melon pink shade for the summer in general.  Perfect with bright aqua accents, like this funky little Nuugard ring ($123, Max and Chloe):

If you’re loving the coral-aqua combo for this summer (so fresh looking), I also considered the Amanda Uprichard Joan dress ($194, Pink Mascara) in a peppy coral.  You’ve probably seen it before because Audrina Patridge from “The Hills” wore it all over the tabloids (…and I read them regularly — my guilty pleasure):

Love the necklace shown on the model here (this photo is taken from Red Dress Boutique, but they only have XS left).  I believe she’s wearing a Blu Bijoux brand necklace, which you can find for $57 at Max & Chloe:

I’m not sure how I feel about the silver beading that links the beads to the tie — I wish they were in gold.  But you can’t win ‘em all, and you can’t beat the price!  I’d probably be more inclined to slip into this CC Skye version (“The Gigi” — $295, CoutureCandy):

Or perhaps the “Sag Harbor” necklace by Amrita Singh ($250, also Couture Candy):

Either would look splashy with the hue of this coral Zimmermann dress ($178, Zimmermann Store):

Love the idea of pairing the aqua-salmon combo with gold heels and a little gold clutch.  However, as mentioned earlier, I was adamant about wearing hot pink as the bride-to-be.  (Sometimes I bear witness to fashion imperatives of dubious origin — why hot pink?!  I probably saw a hot pink-adorned bachelorette in a magazine, movie, or real-life moment in the past and it’s been so indelibly marked on my fashion consciousness  that I just need to carry it out.  I find that going with my gut in these cases typically works out, however.)  Other options of the day-glo pink variety?  Love the shocking pink of Tibi’s Grande Sol collection, in either the sleeveless (on sale $172, Heery’s — while you’re there, check out the ridiculous sale section — loads of Milly and Tibi and even Jack Rogers at 50% off!) or the caftan version ($358, Shopbop):

Such a happy color.  For a patterned alternative, consider this cheery, ready-to-fiesta halter by Campaigne (on sale for $119, Bluefly):

Or perhaps this Envi blouson-top dress (on sale for $79, Heery’s):

Somewhat similar to the classic Parker brand “cami” dress — and oh, how I love that dress.  Perfect for a night out, a bachelorette party, a date night — so feminine and so chic.  They come out with new, of-the-moment prints every season.  I was heartbroken when I finally ordered one on sale at Shopbop, only to find that it was gapingly enormous on me (beyond alterations) even in an XS.  I know, I know — I shouldn’t complain about that kind of sizing issue — but I so wanted one!  Get yours for $187 at Revolve Clothing and I’ll just envy from afar.  I’m loving this soft lavender print:

The style of the dress is frilly and fun enough that even in the lady-like lavender, you could totally rock it at a big girl’s night out.  You can find the style in tons of other prints/colors at Singer22 as well.

The other option I briefly considered when I was beginning to despair of my hot pink dream dress?  This lobster red Loeffler Randall dress (on STEEP sale for $225, Shopbop):

The top has an interested seamed-fringe deal going on — very cha-cha-cha and fun in just the way a bachelorette party dress should be!  The color is unbeatable — just right for a Lollipop red manicure (although I must say I’ve lately been veering into the Essie “Geranium” camp.  It’s perfect for the toesies once you’ve got a tan going.)  If you like the color but aren’t crazy about the spaghetti fringe detailing at the top, I also looked at this sweet little Anlo dress ($264, Shop Hysteria):

Die over the color and, as with my dress, find the cinched-in waist flattering and the silky material evening-out-perfect.  It also comes in this slightly-more-demure cut ($275, Thera M.):

The latter would be perfect if you’re looking to rock a statement-making bib necklace in coral or gold — the neckline is much more amenable to it.  Lastly, I’ll add that if you’re not so much into the candy colored cocktail dress, black is always appropriate.  I don’t judge.  There are some days where it’s just easier and more flattering to reach for the black dress.  And if you fall into that category, please consider this heavily-discounted, ridiculously gorgeous Nili Lotan ($86 — down from $345!!! — Chickdowntown):

Take it out to play with some sparkling accents — a pair of glittered shoes and maybe these delightfully-oversized crystal studs ($106, Rachel Leigh):

(J. Crew, as I’ve featured in previous posts, also has some awesome, affordable “big rocks” jewelry.)  I like the idea of pairing the dress and earrings above with the Kate Spade Carly ($375, Kate Spade):

So festive!  If, by the way, your girls aren’t so much into the little dress scene (or maybe your venue is not appropriate for it — though I’d probably still rock one anyway), consider a bright little “going out” top like this little Anlo top (cool back; check it out! — on sale for $58, Midgett Gray):

Wear with super-dark skinny ankle jeans or white skinnies with some statement-making shoes.  I actually quite like the Kate Spade Carly in plain gold — love the texture ($298, Kate Spade):

But Kate Spade’s “Clarice” is equally lovely if you’re more of a “I need to match” magpie ($298, Zappos):

Just thinking about all the kicky options above has got me absolutely giddy about my party next weekend — eee!  Getting ready for the bubbly…

When I was little, my father took me to the Kennedy Center for symphonies and other performances on several occasions.  I remember one in particular — perhaps my first?  I must have been five or six, and nothing in the world seemed more sophisticated or glamorous.  My mother dressed me in a “party dress” (anyone else remember having frilly socks and patent leather Mary Janes also dubbed “party socks” and “party shoes”?) she and my father had brought me back from Paris that summer.  It was green and white striped with little balloon sleeves and a green sash.  My mother spritzed a little perfume on me and, as I headed down the stairs, my father said “Ooh la la!”  That sealed the deal.  I was officially in love with the way that dressing up and heading out for an evening made me feel.  I was head over heels with the drama of a Big Night Out.  Whether it’s the opera, a black tie gala, or an uber-formal wedding — yes, please.

And while these to-dos are sadly few and far between in this day in age, a girl can still dream.  Ideas for a future Cinderella-at-the-ball moment?  It all begins with a formal dress.  And if we’re talking fantasy, I’m going to reach for the Big Guns: Valentino.  This one-shouldered black gown is the stuff of legends ($6,990, Neiman Marcus):

Then a classic Judith Leiber minaudiere ($2,995, Judith Lieber) and some faux cils:

Add some dramatic lace Valentino pumps ($895, Nordstrom) and a fistful of diamonds.  Insta-Cinderella.

Of course, some of us have to contend with the real world and issues of affordability (myself included), so let’s shelf those over the top dreams and look for ways to get the look in more realistic terms.  I’m pretty much obsessed with this Aidan Mattox one-shouldered evening gown ($385, Neiman Marcus) — I stumbled upon it in my search for a white dress to wear to my rehearsal dinner (don’t worry, I won’t be wearing full-length — or anything quite so formal — but it caught my eye):

Adore.  Can you imagine pulling your hair up, adding some sparkling enorma-studs (below, Ylang23 Vintage — $170, Ylang23), and heading out for the night?  You’d be the belle of the belle.

I’m partial to the design of the above earrings because they remind me of the spectacular lighting on the ceiling of the Kennedy Center opera house:

Love the drama.  Pair the above gown with these off-the-charts t-straps by Louboutin ($1,995, Barneys):

I know, I know.  Shame on me.  I said I’d try to stay within the realm of reality, but — how can you resist?  You could also pair the dress with some unfussy heeled silver sandals.  Stuart Weitzman’s Delovely heels are pretty much the most classic evening shoes you can own ($285, Zappos):

If you owned a pair in gold and silver, you’d pretty much be set for life.  And maybe it’s because I’m getting married this August, but this Grecian goddess gown in ethereal white has me at hello (BCBG, $214, Saks):

The same goes for this jaw-dropping Notte by Marchesa gown (on sale for $440, The Outnet):

LOVE.  And Marchesa is the premiere evening-wear designer du jour — favored by Rachel Zoe, it’s the most coveted label of all at the moment.  Add this little eye-catching bag to either gown — fireworks in clutch form! — by Whiting and Davis ($125, Endless):

And some chunky danglers — I’m partial to this clustered, knotty pair by J. Crew ($65, J. Crew):

They’d look equally stunning with this simple black bustier dress by Ports 1961 (on sale for $455, Shopbop):

Pair with some killer shoes — either champagne or kicked-up black will do the trick.  These Stuart Weitzman’s look lovely and sort of vintage in the “Misty” color ($325, Shoebox):

However, if you’re an all-black kinda gal, these Sergio Rossis caught my eye in the Saks sale section ($482, Saks) — very Carrie Bradshaw in my mind:

Consider pairing with a structured clutch — Amanda Pearl’s are to.die.for (the one below is from last season, but she has lovely new versions for this season), but they are an investment ($1,595 apiece).

Alternately, try this flashy little Felix Ray soft-sided clutch (comes in a few different colors and similar styles — $220, Felix Rey):

Up the ante with this gorgeous, glitzy chrysanthemum ring ($175, nOir jewelry — my go-to for fun, unexpected cocktail rings, which are kind of my signature):

If you’re not into the oversized ring look, or if you want to appear absolutely dripping in jewels, add this crystal link bracelet ($125, J. Crew):

Into the super-femme look?  Test drive this 1970s chic Halston Heritage gown ($455, Shopbop):

Pull out all the stops with these show-stopping swarovski crystal studded peep toes by Rodo ($880, Forzieri):

Definitely glass slipper status.  You could add this chunky pearl Lee Angel ring to further beef up your heavenly angel look ($66, Shopbop):

I’m also kind of enamored of this clustered pearl-and-pink stone ring — the wiring accent adds some interesting edge ($114, Couture Candy):

If you’re into the pearls (very opera house), I like the idea of a drapey black dress (this Ella Moss “Haze” Dress — on sale for $114 at Saks — could be lovely):

And add this lovely little pearl-encrusted clutch ($50, Aldo):

And because nowadays you can get away with shorter dresses in the evening, consider this lovely navy-and-black Adam Lippes number (on sale for $289, Adam):

For some reason, navy-on-black bespeaks subtle sophistication to me.  The artful folds of the dress above really transform the dress into something novel and unexpected.  Don’t you die over it?  This full-skirted, asymmetrical mini by Thread Social is also evening-ready, despite its abbreviated hem (on sale for $325, Thread Social):

The sparkles and length keep it youthful, but it’s still romantically elegant.  And now — if you want to relive a moment of true movie magic — let’s take our cues from Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.

You’ll need a siren red dress — this Valentino stretch jersey is a perfect update ($765, TheOutnet):

Add some movie star white evening gloves and some mega-wattage jewelry (below, $193, Kate Spade):

Ooh la la!